I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it. Indeed, you are still not ready. You are still worldly. For since there is jealousy and quarrelling among you, are you not worldly? Are you not acting like mere humans? 1 Cor. 3:2&3

Jealousy is the expression we give the negative feeling of losing our position of significance to another. It has to do with our reaction to perceived rejection. Now it makes no difference whether the situation is real or imagined.

The fact is the acceptance of another doesn’t mean a rejection of you since you are different from the rest. If you feel rejected, don’t be lured into competition, rather, concentrate and build on your uniqueness. Your decisive strength is in your individuality.

It is believed that no two snowflakes are alike, in the same manner, God made you different, the best thing you can do is to become the person you’re made to be through the development of your unique endowments.

The ultimate therapy for jealousy and quarrelling is the unique you in your full glory; receive the grace to discover yourself and the diligence to unveil your grandeur for the world to see in Jesus’ name.